"Am I totally failing as a parent?"

Yes... we all think it sometimes. Here's the good news....

I remember at the beginning of what you might call my "journey to Whole Parent" something that I used to ask myself every time I screwed up, lost my temper, forgot to feed my kids dinner, or had the sudden urge to throw my highly sensitive and anxious 3 year old into a closet and shut the door (if you're judging me right now for feeling that way, just k…